Welcome to The Often Unseen, my very own passion project.  As a wife of a first responder living with PTSD, I often felt that existing articles and blogs that I found online didn't relate to my experience.

So this blog is simply that - me sharing my journey as a spouse to someone living with PTSD as we navigate daily life.

I hope that my words are able to offer you some comfort.  Perhaps you will feel some similarity in my story.  Or perhaps, you will just feel seen!


Brick By Brick

The Holidays

Comparison Kills

Protection Mode


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